Sunday, September 17, 2006

first fight

Is it unnatural to be pleased when you have your first fight with a lover?

I think of it as a relationship strengthening exercise. It's this that teaches you what strengths and weaknesses both people bring in to solving issues, and what in turn you can do the next time to ensure the going is not so rough. (Of course, the difficult part sometimes is remembering this the next time!)

3 comments:

Jay Sun said...

It is great to have your first fight with a lover, particularly because making up is so much fun!!!

Reminds us of all the reasons we are there with them in the first place…

jerry said...

Its all good, first-times' first time.

Mukta said...

I think it gets better...especially if you win...and of course, you win. :-D